The key word is life, and you've been given the opportunity to celebrate a loved one's life in the individual way that made your friend unique. When a precious loved one has died, you need prayers and empathy.
In many cultures and religious traditions, part of these rituals is the delivery of a eulogy, a short memorial message celebrating the person's accomplishments and important moments. Delegate as many trivial tasks as you can to others in order to give yourself ample time to finish the major planning. Having a memorial poem or poetry to look back upon can really be an emotional strengthener.
Once you are done with the writing, practice a few times in front of a family member, a friend, even a mirror will suffice. Finally, a eulogy needs to be written as a speech, in a form that is easy to deliver. You should refer to the deceased person by name, using no other terms.
To be asked to deliver a memorial tribute is to be given the responsibility of assisting many. You can include poems, quotations or passages from the Bible, when appropriate.
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